Mar

12

Healing From Sickness

Category: Anchoring, General NLP, Healing, Modeling, Submodalities | Leave a Comment

A number of people have asked me about healing from sickness. First, let’s understand what illness is. When your immune system is weak, it is pretty much like a lax security system. A virus, like a thief who knows how to pick a lock, can start testing multiple approaches to unlock your doors. With a [...]

Mar

12

The Two Basic Things in Modeling

Category: General NLP, Modeling, Models of Thinking, Techniques | Leave a Comment

According to Richard Bandler, in any basic skill of personal change you need to learn to (1) take things apart, and (2) put things together. The concept of synthesis and analysis. The concept of modeling and application. So… if let’s say you are about to start a project, you need to first analyze the needs, [...]

Mar

12

What Works?

Category: General NLP, Models of Thinking, SCORE, Therapeutic Approaches | Leave a Comment

In NLP, the most important aspect of it is the ability to find out what really works. I mean, the crux of the whole subject is not about the values set, the beliefs or anything of that sort. If it works, it works. This also basically means that it has to work for you. You [...]

Mar

9

Solution-nizing

Category: General NLP, Techniques | Leave a Comment

It’s always easier to get caught up in problems, so I thought I’d drop a short note on the strategies related to building viable solutions. I noticed that sometimes, I’d be ill, and conducting a training session, but I don’t feel ill - I feel normal (actually - great!). But when I stop, the focus [...]

Mar

7

Why NLP Works

Category: General NLP, Models of Thinking, People In NLP | 2 Comments

I have had a few tussles with psychology professors who want to argue that NLP is invalid and “pop” psychology. I like the way they put it: “pop” psychology - it literally changes your submodalities. It’s like “pop” academia. Makes you wonder whether it’s credible. it’s worse when they use the word “just”. It’s “just” “pop” [...]

Mar

2

Creativity

Category: General NLP, Modeling | Leave a Comment

Alvin’s got a post on this. Visit http://lifecoachesblog.com/2006/02/27/walt-disneys-strategy-of-genius/ and how you can model creativitiy.

Mar

2

How To Become a Licensed NLP Practitioner

Category: Administration, General NLP | 2 Comments

A number of people have asked me what it takes to be an NLP Practitioner, Licensed by Dr. Richard Bandler himself. I’d like to be clear about this because many people think that NLP can be learnt in just 12 days. In my opinion, NLP requires a lot of distinction, so even if you took [...]

Mar

2

The Genius of Sun Tzu Part III

Category: General NLP, Modeling | 1 Comment

III. ATTACK BY STRATAGEM
1. Sun Tzu said: In the practical art of war, the best thing of all is to take the enemy’s country whole and intact; to shatter and destroy it is not so good. So, too, it is better to recapture an army entire than to destroy it, to capture a regiment, a [...]

Mar

2

The Milton Model

Category: General NLP, Milton Model | Leave a Comment

If you are not yet aware, the Milton Model is a permissive approach to influencing people. Hence, you retain choice! It’s a useful approach because some people don’t like being told what to do. I’ve actually distilled the Milton Model into several language structures you can learn without having to go through the pain of the [...]

Mar

1

Calming Yourself In The Face Of Aggression

Category: General NLP | Leave a Comment

I was recently involved in a dispute over something rather trivial. The person had asked me to return an item which I had borrowed. Now the fact is I was willing to return it but I had to get it from my parent’s home, which I hardly visit. As I explained, this person took it [...]

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