Some people think that modeling leads to the loss of identity. Actually, most people already model, but on autopilot. We are already modeling people whom we have an affinity to. We already unconsciously learn from people who are around us whether we realize or not.
We have already been modeling. Children are great at doing this and our unconscious models include our parents and teachers.
It’s pretty much like your memory. Why is it that sometimes you remember stuff you want to remember, but a number of times, you remember things you don’t want to remember?
Wouldn’t it be good for you to learn to model after people you want to be like? In other words, you must learn to seek out people who are exhibiting skills you want to pick up. Therefore, you need to be clear who your role models are.
